Every tactic
310 manipulation and control tactics in ten groups. Each has its own page in plain words: what it is, what it can sound like, how to tell if it fits, and what you can do.
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P 01Smear CampaignP 02Flying MonkeysP 03TriangulationP 04Group ConsolidationP 05Silent CoalitionsP 06OstracismP 07MobbingP 08ScapegoatingP 09Labeling as Identity WarfareP 10Reputation LaunderingP 11Punishment by ProxyP 12Stochastic Harassment DirectionP 13Pile-OnsP 14Golden Child ElevationP 15Social Proof PressureP 16Divide and ConquerP 17Interruption PatternsP 18Credibility TheftP 19Priming / Narrative Seeding
Put-downs that wear you down
W 01Shame InstallationW 02Comparative DevaluationW 03NeggingW 04Sarcasm as WeaponW 05ContemptW 06Dr. Jekyll/Mr. HydeW 07Ambient AbuseW 08Emotional InvalidationW 09BaitingW 10DehumanizationW 11Shame-as-Governance Disguised as AdviceW 12The “Good Woman Program”W 13Conditional WorthW 14Internalized ConditioningW 15Pre-PunishmentW 16Silence InstallationW 17FawningW 18Identity ErosionW 19Learned HelplessnessW 20ParentificationW 21Self-Gaslighting InductionW 22Approval Addiction CultivationW 23ObjectificationW 24Toxic Positivity / Weaponized OptimismW 25Name-Calling Disguised as HumorW 26Public HumiliationW 27Trash-Can Diagnosis
Guilt, pressure and fear
G 01Emotional BlackmailG 02FOGG 03Guilt-TrippingG 04Duty ScriptsG 05“We’re Family” ErasureG 06Concern TrollingG 07Forced ForgivenessG 08Forced TeamingG 09Loyalty BindsG 10Demand for GratitudeG 11Weaponized GenerosityG 12Obligation InstallationG 13Covert ContractsG 14Favor DebtG 15Guilt LegacyG 16Martyrdom DisplayG 17Emotional Hostage-TakingG 18Self-Harm Threats as LeverageG 19Catastrophizing as ControlG 20Silent TreatmentG 21Negative Reinforcement TrapsG 22Nonverbal DominanceG 23IntimidationG 24Ambient Sexual ThreatG 25Sexual CoercionG 26False DilemmaG 27Sunk Cost ExploitationG 28Foot-in-the-DoorG 29Door-in-the-FaceG 30AnchoringG 31Urgency ManufacturingG 32Cognitive OverloadG 33Extinction BurstsG 34UltimatumsG 35Reverse PsychologyG 36Manufactured ScarcityG 37Blackmail / Leverage ExploitationG 38Overcorrection DemandsG 39Forced SubmissionG 40Moral FramingG 41Moral Outrage as WeaponG 42Spatial InvasionG 43Rage as ControlG 44“Sacred Duty” Manipulation
Control over your life
C 01Information ControlC 02IsolationC 03Punishment of BoundariesC 04Behavior ControlC 05Financial ControlC 06Financial Dependence by DesignC 07Golden BarsC 08Forced DependencyC 09InfantilizationC 10Enforcing Trivial DemandsC 11“I Know Best” PaternalismC 12Velvet Glove ControlC 13Boundary TestingC 14Location TrackingC 15Demonstrating OmnipotenceC 16Stalking-by-NotificationC 17Device Access DemandsC 18Monitoring & SurveillanceC 19Response-Time PolicingC 20InterrogationC 21Smart-Home CoercionC 22Resource SabotageC 23Ritualized ExhaustionC 24Emotion ControlC 25Moving-in-SilenceC 26Choice RestrictionC 27Health SabotageC 28Reproductive CoercionC 29Sabotaging SuccessC 30Time TheftC 31Maternal GatekeepingC 32Stalking & Surveillance (Post-Separation)C 33Legal Abuse (Post-Separation)
Work, school and systems
S 01Process ExhaustionS 02Diffusion of ResponsibilityS 03Legal/Administrative ThreatsS 04Confidentiality as WeaponS 05HR ShieldingS 06Institutional BetrayalS 07Algorithmic ManagementS 08Organizational Silence EngineeringS 09“Polite Hostile” EnvironmentsS 10Performance Framework ManipulationS 11PIP WeaponizationS 12Paper-Trail TrapsS 13Setting Up to FailS 14“Managed Out” Through ExhaustionS 15Individualization of Systemic IssuesS 16Credit LaunderingS 17Credit TheftS 18Idea Theft in Real TimeS 19GatekeepingS 20TokenismS 21Pseudo-ConsultationS 22Weaponized Inclusion / Strategic ContainmentS 23Performative Allyship / False SolidarityS 24Willful Blindness as ComplicityS 25Paper TerrorismS 26Administrative EscalationS 27False ReportsS 28Pressure to SignS 29Clinical Tone PolicingS 30False Conclusion from Normal LabsS 31Medical Gaslighting
Dodging blame
B 01Plausible DeniabilityB 02MinimizationB 03Tone PolicingB 04DARVOB 05Complaint WeaponizationB 06Preemptive AccusationB 07ProjectionB 08Blame-ShiftingB 09Victim Role ReversalB 10Non-Apology ApologyB 11Counterfeit CalmB 12“You’re Too Emotional”B 13DenialB 14DeflectionB 15WhataboutismB 16Kafka TrappingB 17False EquivalenceB 18Apology Without RepairB 19Malicious ComplianceB 20Weaponized IncompetenceB 21Strategic ApathyB 22Feigned IgnoranceB 23Moral LicensingB 24Halo Effect ExploitationB 25Weaponized Therapy-SpeakB 26Accountability Evasion via DiagnosisB 27Spiritual BypassingB 28Competitive VictimhoodB 29Pity PlaysB 30Weaponized TearsB 31Strategic Self-Deprecation / Performed Humility
Twisting what is real
T 01GaslightingT 02Moving GoalpostsT 03Double BindsT 04Contradiction StackingT 05Repetition as TruthT 06Selective MemoryT 07Revisionist HistoryT 08Strategic AmbiguityT 09Platform MigrationT 10CounteringT 11NormalizationT 12Thought-Stopping ClichésT 13Word SaladT 14Circular ArgumentsT 15Firehose of FalsehoodT 16Gish GallopT 17Frame ControlT 18Burden of Proof ShiftingT 19SealioningT 20Dog Whistling / Coded SignalingT 21Half-Truth FramingT 22Lying by OmissionT 23Fabricated EvidenceT 24Vague AllegationsT 25CompartmentalizationT 26Strategic IncompletenessT 27LyingT 28ExaggerationT 29Loaded LanguageT 30Semantic Erosion / Meaning DilutionT 31Meta-GaslightingT 32Authority HijackT 33False AuthorityT 34Credential-CostumingT 35Identity PerformancesT 36Pseudo-Profundity / Intellectual IntimidationT 37Limited HangoutT 38Edited RecordingsT 39Evidence TrapsT 40Gotcha FramingT 41Semantic TrapsT 42Aftercare ControlT 43Bait and Switch
Groups, cults and propaganda
M 01Information CascadesM 02Controlled OppositionM 03Agent of Influence OperationsM 04AstroturfingM 05Computational PropagandaM 06AI-Driven Narrative HijackingM 07Manufactured ConsentM 08Normative MessagingM 09Overton Window ManipulationM 10Post-Truth Epistemic ManipulationM 11Cognitive WarfareM 12PSYOP Message FramingM 13Cyber Manipulation Operations (CMOs)M 14Strategic Deception (Denial & Deception / D&D)M 15False Flag OperationsM 16Reflexive ControlM 17Strategic LeakingM 18Honey TrappingM 19MICE Framework ExploitationM 20Wedge Issue ExploitationM 21Echo Chamber ConstructionM 22Milieu ControlM 23Bounded ChoiceM 24Demand for PurityM 25Dispensing of ExistenceM 26Phobia IndoctrinationM 27Doctrine Over PersonM 28Thought ControlM 29Sacred ScienceM 30Charismatic Authority DependenceM 31Mystical ManipulationM 32Forced Confession / Self-Criticism RitualsM 33Humiliation RitualsM 34Information Laundering
Online and technology
O 01Coordinated ReportingO 02DoxxingO 03Sock PuppetsO 04AI Voice CloningO 05AI-Driven Social Engineering (Automated)O 06Context PoisoningO 07Adversarial Machine LearningO 08Algorithmic ManipulationO 09Algorithmic Targeting of Vulnerable PopulationsO 10Biometric ExploitationO 11Dark Patterns (AI-Adaptive)O 12Immersive Manipulation (VR/AR)O 13Parasocial Manipulation EngineeringO 14Pig Butchering (Long-Con Digital Fraud)O 15CatfishingO 16Synthetic Persona NetworksO 17Weaponized AI EmpathyO 18Epistemic Coercion via AIO 19Social EngineeringO 20SIM Swap / 2FA InterceptionO 21Account TakeoverO 22Context Collapse ExploitationO 23DeepfakesO 24Intimate Image AbuseO 25Brigading
Love that hooks you
L 01Intermittent ReinforcementL 02Love BombingL 03Manufactured IntimacyL 04Future FakingL 05HooveringL 06Push-PullL 07Emotional FloodingL 08Trauma BondingL 09Relief BaitL 10Confirmation Bias ExploitationL 11Premature ExclusivityL 12Manufactured DestinyL 13Exclusive MeaningL 14The Exception ScriptL 15Emotional ParasitismL 16The Rescue HookL 17Mirroring-on-DemandL 18BreadcrumbingL 19Ghosting-Orbiting CycleL 20Ghosting as ControlL 21Idealize-Devalue-Discard CycleL 22SplittingL 23Identity Hooking